For a lot of men the main goal with the women on a first date is to get her in the bed.
This is not a bad thing if your lady wants it but if you are one of those guys I’m sorry – this article isn’t for you.

Here I’m talking about your first date with a girl that you really like. The moment when you know that she is your next girlfriend! Maybe… It’s up to you in most cases. For me the best way for that is to build some kind of a relationship with her. To build trust and raise the bar at the beginning. The whole experience will be better because of the connection you two have. I’m not talking about love but just compare the sex in a relationship with one night stands. Yes sometimes the second one is really exiting but third time sex is better than the first one.

I want to share with you some tips about the first date and what to do when you have one.

  • The first thing to do on the first date is even before the date. Dress up nicely! And no it isn’t time for your prom suit. It’s a necessity to have some cool and fashionable clothes for occasions like this in your closet. This doesn’t mean to go shopping right after the date is set. You have to feel these clothes. It is like when you put on you brand new dress shoes and after a few hours you can’t even stay on your feet, because all your life you are wearing sneakers. Please be aware about your style, about your fashion and plan it ahead for the specific occasions. Check out my fashion category for more advices on that. For me the best thing a guy should do is to dress accordingly the happening. I like to wear some oversized or long fit t-shirts on daily bases but when it is time for a theatre or a special dinner it is time for a white shirt and a classy pair of shoes.
  • The second thing is to buy her a flower. This is a little bit oldish for a lot of men, especially the younger ones but all the girls like flowers – remember that! Just spend 5 or 10 bucks on that one flower. You don’t have to give her 101 roses or even a rose. You can ask the shop assistant which flower will last longer. It will be a reminder for the great date long after it. The girls notice stuff like that.
  • And the third one is: Plan your date! Guys, this is crucial! It’s not important what kind of a date you want to have, it just have to be planned in details. You have to know where to take her, it is better to know the place and if it’s possible, to choose the table. It’s better to be a cozy and not so crowded corner. Choose a place with a nice view, nice music, good service and delicious food. And yes, you have to make your research before the special day, if you don’t have a place like this in mind. If you want your date to be different – just do it! Maybe a boat on a lake, or hiking at the near forest, or ice skating. You have a million options here but please choose wisely. If your girl hates cold weather and ice, maybe the skating isn’t the best idea. The last part of this is to plan something special to make her remembers you. Probably she is on demand and you have to be better than all the others on the line. Everyone can take her to a dinner or a cocktail but she will remember the one who make her laugh and lead her to a new and interesting experience. If you prepare well – your date will blow her mind!

Plan a second option for the night. Your first date depends on that! (Tweet it!)

Bonus tip: Plan a second option for the night. Your first date depends on that! If you park in front of your favorite restaurant and the place is burning you have to have a second option, after calling the firefighters of course.

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